I’ve recently learned that you need more than the usual “slap and tickle” to get things going. Things get routine and boring, and soon it feels like you’re just going through the motions. So, take the fun someplace else [No, I don’t mean a truck stop bathroom].
Play a game of Wii bowling, or try your hand at the real thing [I promise, its much much more fun!]. Take a hike, go swimming, or ride bikes. Having fun outside the bedroom will lead to a lot more fun in it.