Men are the worst with this one. But everyone’s gotta learn to open up. If something is really bothering you about the other person, tell them! Locking it up woll only lead to resentment. And soon you’ll explode and get into a bigger fight than you would have if you’d said something sooner. Plus, it’s not fair to bring something from months ago into a fight when the other person had no idea it even bothered you.
So say something. Or it’ll all come out when you’re drunk. You’ll all cry, feel bad, and you’ve officially ruined a perfectly good night of drinking.
Good job.