No one likes a clingy girlfriend. Just because he didn’t respond to your text in under 3 minutes, doesn’t mean he’s mad at you. Or cheating. Or ignoring you. So what is taking him just OH SO LONG? He’s probably working. Or driving. Maybe he’s in school, or in court, or talking to his mom. Maybe he’s eating. Or went to the bathroom. Maybe he went downstairs to get a burrito. Anything bad you think it is, it probably isn’t. So give him time before he answers. After 30 minutes send a courtesy text in case he didn’t feel the first one. Still nothing? Give it another 30 minutes. Do not text his friends [see #4] to see what is going on. Just chill for a few more minutes.
However, if you KNOW what he’s doing, and you KNOW he’s busy…LEAVE HIM ALONE. Do not text him and call him 904534654 times in 10 minutes. This will drive him insane, and not in the good kind of way. More like the, “Holy shit this bitch is psycho” kind of way.
Put down the cell phone. It’ll be ok.
