Love Advice

hey there girl. im in love with one direction but im never gonna meet them. im going to their concert next year though. but i wont be able to meet them or stuff and i live in holland so theyll never come there. im going to have to fly to fucking england to see them. one expensive trip ill tell ya. ughhh they are just so perfect. 

We were talking about this band at work the other day
And I still dk who they are

I am too old for the current boybands XD I saw NSYNC once and was at their sound check :x

Dear Liz, there is a guy that really likes me, like REALLY LIKES ME. at first I didn't take much notice of him, but now that I've talked to him a few times I realize he is a really sweet guy. the problem is that most people don't know him very well and assume that he's really strange. If I were to go out with him, how would I deal with the pressure of everyone judging me/him? especially in high school? 

Who cares what anyone else thinks? They’d all be missing out on something really great, just like you may have. Let them know~Just get to know him. You can’t judge everyone at first glance. If you like each other, it shouldn’t matter what anyone says as long as your happy!!

Do you think it's possible to be in love with two people at one time...? 

I think so. I don’t think all humans (if not all) were made for monogamy. Not saying that’s my thing~but I don’t think the heart can always be limited, ya know?

I just found out that the guy I like likes me, but he wants a girl that's not afraid to come up to him/ is confident and courageous. I am these things, but whenever he's around I become shy. However, knowing that he likes me, I think I can be more confident, but what are some ways I can prove to him that I am all of these things? 

Just be yourself around him. Act like you would if he wasn’t around~It’s just a boy! dont be scared! He wants to know who ~you~ are anyway!

Okay so my bestfriend likes her ex and she nows i like him but she told me she was going to kiss him on saterday and she knows i like him... What should i do? 

Find a new boy to crush on. Friends never go for friend’s ex’s- just not cool, man.

so i've been talking to this guy for a while and we've been really good friends for years. he asked me out about a week ago, so i know he definitely likes me. i had to say no, because i was going on vacation, but told him i'd love to hang out when i got back. i've been home for two days now and we've talked, but he hasn't brought it up yet. i'm worried that he's changed his mind or something. what do you think? and what should i do- bring it up myself? maybe he's waiting on me to bring it up... 

I’d say to bring it up to him, he may have forgotten- Not on purpose! But just because guys really aren’t great at remembering those sorts of things sometimes, so bring it up, and refresh his memory~

do you know of any other blogs that give advice like this? i'm not saying i don't like your blog, but i'd just like to hear other opinions as well, no offense! I'm a huge fan- you give great advice :) 

Not a clue actually lol but thanks

Im a guy and i justed wanted to ask: what are the ways a girl will show that she likes a guy? I know there probably is a lot 

It really all depends on the girl. My current boyfriend tried hitting on me all the time, years before we got together… I was/am so shy and thought he was so cute that I never said more than two words to him, and he thought I hated him :x
As for when a girl is going out of their way to show a boy they like him… I used to bake and cook a lot for guys I liked, or any chance I could to just touch their arm during conversation, or fix their hair~etc.

Okay, so I'm 16(girl), never had my first kiss or first boyfriend for that matter. I know I'm not the only one but I'm ready to be with someone. Also because, I moved away from ALL my friends and go to school far from my home so I really have no friends around to hang out with after school so feeling lonely all the time makes me feel worse. Maybe if i had some friends around more I wouldnt feel this way but I just dont know what to do ... ?! 

Try and make some new friends. Join a sport, or an activity like drama club or art club, or band, or chorus, whatever floats your boat, and meet new people, who knows you may end up with a great group of friends, and your first boyfriend. Have fun!

how do I tell my best friend I'm falling for him? I'm too shy to admit and I've never fallen in love to anyone before. And the bad thing is, he likes someone else. And I give him advices on how to get that girl. 

Just tell him, I guess. Quit helping him get someone that isn’t you, and let him know how you feel and see what happens.